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5 Perasaan yang sangat kita benci



5 Perasaan yang sangat kita benci
Diterima, dimengerti, dihagai, dan menjadi sesuatu; semua perasaan seperti itulah yang selalu didambakan setiap orang ketika bersosial. Di dunia ini juga merupakan tempat yang sulit dimana kita semua bisa mengalami hal yang sebaliknya dari lima perasaan ini.







Lima perasaan yang kita benci:

1. Kita benci merasa ditolak - perasaan penolakan sama seperti halnya diabaikan, mengenai cinta dan kasih sayang. Jika seseorang ingin menjadi sesuatu yang spesifik untuk dicintai, mereka dengan cepat menemukan bahwa mereka tidak layak untuk mencintai dengan cara mereka sendiri. Penerimaan di sisi lain adalah tentang cinta tanpa pamrih.

2. Kita benci merasa salah paham - Tidak satu pun dari kita suka saat orang lain beranggapan bahwa kita melakukan sesuatu padahal kita tidak melakukannya. Memahami seseorang adalah salah satu cara tercepat untuk menjalin hubungan.

3. Kita benci merasa tidak dihargai - setiap orang melakukan hal-hal yang cukup berarti. apakah pekerjaan kita diakui atau tidak, itu penting. Saat orang lain berpihak kepada kita itu sangat berarti. Menghargai orang karena hal-hal kecil yang mereka lakukan adalah cara yang bagus untuk mendapatkan rasa hormat.

4. Kita benci merasa dikecualikan - seperti merasa ditolak, atau tidak di inginkan. orang yang tidak aman mengecualikan orang lain, membuat mereka merasa tidak aman, merasa lebih baik dan lebih aman tentang diri mereka sendiri. Orang yang aman di sisi lain tidak memiliki masalah termasuk orang lain, terutama outlier.

5. Kita benci merasa tidak berguna - tidak ada yang tidak berharga, karena semua memiliki nilai yang tinggi, tapi kita bisa saja merasa tidak berharga. sebaiknya kita menghindari dari sesuatu yang membuat kita merasa tidak berguna dan menemukan cara agar bisa menjadi yang berguna..

Gặp thông điệp: ketika berbicara dengan orang lain, perhatikan mereka, pahamilah mereka, hargai mereka, sertakan mereka.

Sebisa mungkin, sejauh itu tergantung pada kita, kita harus mengelilingi diri kita dengan orang-orang yang menerima, memahami, menghargai, memasukkan, dan menghargai orang lain. Orang seperti itu adalah nafas, harapan, cahaya, dan kehidupan.

Semakin kita mengenali kebutuhan akan perasaan positif pada diri kita sendiri, semakin kita siap untuk menginvestasikan perasaan positif ke dalam kehidupan orang lain.
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Be Your Self



Be Your Self


The more mature, we will realize the hardest thing to do that is when to be yourself. There are so many powers and roles we must play. Until sometimes we forget how it feels to be yourself.Even the people around us always wear a mask. Some are even willing to humble themselves for sympathy. Some people have the heart to sacrifice others to be praised. Someone feels that everything can not have any power or ability.


Pretending That's Tiring


 Pretend to feel okay there are heavy ones. Wearing masks of others to be flattered or praised. Pretend to smile in front of people we do not like. Wear a smiling facial mask in front of people who have hurt us. Pretending it was very tiring. And life is too short to spend just to be someone else.


Sorry, I'm Not A Smart Woman Looking for Sympathy


 What makes us ourselves? One reason is that we are afraid of being hated. We fear being hated and shunned when showing true identity. We are not confident with everything we have. Until finally we are willing to wear masks to be the same or uniform with others. And not everyone can dare to be yourself and away from sympathy.


We Are Hard To Be Happy If Everything Is Forced


 Feeling difficult happy and comfortable every thing, maybe one cause is because we do everything with certainty. Forced to be someone else. Forced to use masks to be accepted in the environment.
It's different when we can do the things we like in our own way. There is an irreplaceable satisfaction and happiness. It can even make life more exciting and fun. If in a fast way, hard to be sure to live happily.

But sometimes life is full of surprises and mysteries alone. There are many things that happen beyond our power. Until finally we want to want to mask to get attention and help. See the conditions or problems that you are facing right now, try to remain so yourself, Ladies. Difficult indeed but with so life will feel louder, is not it?
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Learn from Mistakes



 Learn from Mistakes


No one likes to share mistakes. But if you want to live life well, then there is no guarantee for you to not make mistakes. If you can learn from mistakes properly, then you will get new fuel to move forward.

You must realize it is an important part of self-development. Do not keep contemplating with guilt and regret, of course you can learn from these mistakes.

1. Apologize sincerely and sincerely


If you have made a mistake that hurt / harm others, it is very important for you to immediately apologize in earnest. Make sure it is an accident that will not happen again. A good apology of the person's trust in you.
In fact, if you do not apologize, then most likely the person will attack you.

It would be most effective if you personally apologize by mail or email. However, so you have apologized, do not make the same mistake again, because it is a silliness and very annoying. Immediately improve your actions.


2. Do not Be a 'Perfectionist'


If you live life with certainty to make mistakes, then you will spend your life by doing nothing. It does not matter if you make a mistake, because once again it is a vital part of life to keep you going. The more responsibility you bear, the more likely you make mistakes more often.

If you always want to feel everything is perfect, always want to avoid the slightest mistakes, it will gradually fortify yourself psychologically and you will not dare to take risks.


3. Do not Throw Time by Seeking Justification


We humans have the natural nature to seek justification for our mistakes. When we make mistakes, our average first is the fault of others.

"Yes, I've hit the car in front of me, but it's because my friend who always invites me gossip so my concentration is split ..."

"I can not finish the task on schedule because my computer is having trouble ..."

You need to know, when the mistakes you make, your boss is not at all interested in the justifications you make. We seek justification because of our high ego. Sometimes the best thing to say is very simple: "Yes, I made a mistake."


4. Understand Why Such Mistakes Can Happen


Errors can occur due to various errors. To reduce the same error twice, you must understand the root of the problem.

For example, you are caught in a quick and angry tone; often you put out bad words. You have to find out what caused you anger at that time. Maybe you feel very tired or your head is sick. If you make a mistake because you are so tired, try not to sleep until late at night. If you feel stressed, get together a way to make and relax.


5. Avoid Repeating the Same Error


You must avoid persistent guilt for mistakes, but at the same time, you have to find new ways and take corrective action. If you repeat the same mistake, it shows you are not experiencing a progress and the cause of repeated loss / suffering.

Often errors are caused by bad habits. To eliminate the same error over and over, you have to remove the bad habits. This is not easy and requires extra effort to change habits. Create, quickly you can quickly change the bad habits, quickly you quickly easy to make the same mistakes.


6. Mistakes Are an Opportunity To Learn


From the mistakes you have made, of course you will grow and wise. Mistakes, in judgment with the courage to take risks, are crucial to your success. The important thing is to see the error as a stepping stone to achieve something higher and a better life.
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Nature Friendly - Islamic Religion

 

Is to worship God, the purpose of human creation. That is by becoming a khalifah (representative of Allah) on earth. Which means that the responsibility for the preservation of the earth and the universe is in the hands of man.

So great God created this world. Perfect until there is no gap that makes man able to match it. Water, the air and the land and the living beings sheltering within it, are specially destined for us, human beings as partners to serve Him. That is, humans must be friendly with nature, not busy exploiting it for personal gain.

In this case, Allah Almighty has warned not to corrupt the earth after Allah created it (Qs al-A'raf [7]: 56). That is, there are indeed a group of humans who have been despotic to the earth and nature. Flash floods, landslides, drastic climate change, a variety of pollution, until the clean water crisis was a proof of the destruction of nature.

On the contrary, God's reward when man prosperes nature by faith and piety, is the deriving of blessings from heaven and earth (Qs al-A'raf [7]: 96).

Earth and nature will be a 'paradise' for human survival. To be a merciful grace for the descendants of Adam.

Surely we can reflect on the history of the ancient people, how nature is subject only to God. The flood in the days of Noah, is proof that nature will fight against the unbelievers. Or the Red Sea happy to spread the way for Prophet Musa and his followers when chased by Pharaoh. Surely nature and all that also glorify and obey Allah (QS al-Jumu'ah [62]: 1). Logically, a Muslim certainly will not hurt other beings (nature), even he (the Muslims) will make him a friend to be together to serve his God.

Learning from Nature


"Verily in the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the alternation of night and day there are signs (greatness of God) to the intelligent" (Qs Ali Imran [190]: 190). This verse clearly tells the human race to pay attention and contemplate the universe. Taking and drawing on the wisdom that is behind it.

Nature Friendly - Islamic Religion
Learning istiqomah for example, nature is always consistent in its task. The hydrological cycle (water) starts from the rainwater that the earth absorbs, then evaporates into the air into clouds, and returns to rain. And so on, always consistent. Unfortunately, there is now a lot of cemented land, or the river is filled with garbage so that the water cycle becomes disturbed. As a result, ground water supplies are running low. The survival of human life is threatened.



Nature also teaches the importance of cooperation. Ants for example, always live hand in hand, put aside ego, work according to job (division of task). Or mutually beneficial inter-animal symbiosis, such as buffalo with birds. Although different species (types), there is an agreement between them to synergize, optimize the benefits gained.

And there are many more valuable lessons from every interaction we have with nature. For is not there not a single creation on earth in vain? So, keep knowing, reveal the beauty of the universe to be more fair to him (nature).

Maintaining Nature


Nature Friendly - Islamic ReligionThere are many things that we can do to preserve nature. For example, doing reforestation (greening). Some hadith explains that planting a tree is a worship that will continue to be rewarded. Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) in a narration said, if the end of the world has arrived, in your hands there is still the seeds of dates that need to be planted, do not hesitate, immediately plant. Therefore, start from our home and our immediate environment. Also provide land for water absorption, so the availability of water can be consistently maintained.


Throwing the garbage in place, may be a slogan that we are very memorized. However, in practice it has not been optimally done. There should be mass awareness for TSP (Hold from littering, Keep the garbage in place, and Pick up the garbage that is around). The simple concept that is often evoked by Aa Gym is, actually the real thing we can do.

Alternatively, make savings, minimize the use of electrical energy, fuel, or any products that come from nature. At least, by consuming sufficiently, it gives time for nature to recover its resources. So that it can last longer, in order to be used our children and grandchildren later.

In addition, environmental love education should also be taught from an early age to the children. Perhaps this is the thing that escapes attention. Yet if we reflect, the earth and the universe, have been inherited since Adam and Eve, and will be cast into future generations. We certainly hope, they (future generations) will enjoy this beautiful nature. So, invite our descendants to become friends of nature. Loving and benefiting from nature without destructing and confusing.
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Successful in life means (Al qur'an)






          Finding the meaning of life is an important discussion that is often delivered by motivational speaking. In fact they are so stressed how important it is to know the meaning of life. Because to understand the meaning of life that we can live a more meaningful and more motivated. Then, there are training sessions that lead us to discover the meaning of our lives.


Successful in life means
Any something wrong?

          here is: our live in the world will determine life in the hereafter. its means that we can not arbitrarily determine the meaning of based life on the concept that it is unclear opinion. If we are wrong to interpret this life, then we live by the wrong meaning, it was predictable towards where we will live. How about us afterlife?


          Finding the meaning of life is a serious thing, not a joke. No idea what distinguished partial world affairs and the affairs of the hereafter. Life world is a determinant of how our life in the hereafter.
Perhaps with the latest methods, we will find various methods of finding the meaning of life or purpose in life. Then, it empowerment our lives, become more successful in the world. However, the success of the world has no meaning if in the next human being failed.

          Thus, searching for the meaning of life is a critical point that should not be wrong. This will determine your life both in the world and in the hereafter. The great scholar, Muhammad Al-Ghazali, once said that a superficial understanding of life is an act of 'criminal' vile.



FIND THE TRUE MEANING OF LIFE

          To find the true meaning of life, then we need to refer to the references that vouch for which no other is the Quran which is the word of Allah, Turn all humans. Of course, God Subhaanahu Wa Ta'ala knows best about our lives, including the meaning of our lives.

          Allow us search for the meaning of life under the guidance of a motivator? Of course permissible, if the motivator is referring to his Quran and hadith. If the reference is not the Quran and Hadith, then we need to think again.


TRUE MEANING OF LIFE          Is there a universal truth? Yes, of course. A universal truth that the Qur'an itself. However, there are people who do not want to follow the truth of the Quran so as to make "new truth" that they receive. It's a matter of faith, the difference between those who believe and do not. If you are a believer, of course you will receive wholehearted that the Qur'an is the source of real truth, not the other.



          To that end, the search for the meaning of life, we must ask: "What it lives by the Newspaper?". Please read and explore the Koran. Please ask for the guidance of scholars who understand the interpretation of the Quran. Please read the Qur'an comment written by scholars reliable.

So What is the Meaning of Life According to the Newspaper?

Again, you can explore the Quran to find the real meaning of life. Here are some of the core 

understanding of the meaning of life according to the Newspaper.

First: Life is Pray


Life is Pray
In essence, the meaning of life in Islam is to worship. The existence of our world is nothing else just to worship God. Meaning of worship is of course true sense of worship, does not mean only prayer, fastidiousness, charity, and pilgrimage, but worship in every aspect of our lives.
"And I have not created the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me." (Surah Adh Dzaariyaat: 56)




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Bukit jamur Bungah Gresik



Wisata Bukit jamur adalah tempat wisata yang unik, Desa Bungah Gresik selain terkenal sebagai Desa pengrajin kopyah dan rebananya yang penuh dengan cerita sejarahnya. juga terkenal dengan wisata alamnya yang unik, yaitu adanya batu berbentuk jamur.

Bukit jamur Bungah Gresik


Batu berbentuk jamur, juga disebut Rock pedestal, adalah batu alami yang bentuknya, seperti namanya, menyerupai jamur. Batuan-batuan tersebut mengalami deformasi dalam beberapa cara yang berbeda: dengan erosi dan pelapukan, aksi glasial, atau Pengikisan secara cepat.


Bukit jamur Bungah Gresik
Biasanya ditemukan di daerah gurun, batuan ini terbentuk selama ribuan tahun ketika erosi angin dari bagian batu yang terisolasi kemudian berkembang pada tingkat yang berbeda di bagian bawahnya sampai ke puncaknya. Abrasi pada pasir yang terkikis oleh angin sangat mungkin terjadi sekitar 3 kaki dari area tanah, menyebabkan bagian tengah terkikis lebih cepat daripada bagian atasnya. Air yang mengalir juga memiliki efek yang sama.

Terkadang, komposisi kimia batuan bisa menjadi faktor penting; Jika bagian atas batuan lebih tahan terhadap erosi dan pelapukan, ia mengikis lebih lambat dari pangkal. Formasinya juga dikaitkan dengan pelapukan kimia di dasar batu karena pengumpulan embun di dekat permukaan.

Batu jamur pada akhirnya bisa terbentuk dari batuan dasar hard rock yang sebagian besar datar, mirip dengan pola batuan yang membentuk air terjun. Pelapisan lapisan hard rock yang terbuka akhirnya memperlihatkan batu yang lebih rendah terkena erosi dari angin, air, intrusi garam, dan lain-lain, tergantung pada kondisi setempat. Lapisan batuan yang lebih lembut lebih mudah terkikis, menyebabkan terbentuknya cekungan. Batuan keras di atas tahan terhadap proses ini, dan akhirnya bisa berakhir seperti batuan jamur terisolasi yang berada di atas dataran rendah yang baru.

Ada sebagian tempat unik di negara lain yang memiliki bebatuan berbentuk jamur sama seperti pada bukit jamur. salah satunya adalah di  TaiwanYehliu


Bukit jamur

Tapi berbeda dengan Bukit jamur yang terbentuk karena erosi angin, batuan jamur pada Yehliu ini terbentuk alami akibat erosi Air laut.

Singkat saja artikel saya kali ini semoga kawasan seperti ini tetap dapat dilestarikan layaknya di negara2 lain, mengingat fenomena rock pedestal terbentuk selama ribuan tahun, bukan waktu yang singkat bukan?


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Perkalian 6 - 9 menggunakan jari-jari tangan lengkap

perkalian memang begitu penting ketika belajar matematika, nah pada halaman kali ini akan ada sedikit tips agar menghitung perkalian dengan cepat dan mudah, ada contoh dan foto juga biar mudah di fahami mohon disimak sama sama dengan baik yaa,,,,,!!!

pernahkah kalian menghafal tabel perkalian klasik? mungkin perkalian antara 1 - 5 tidak terlalu sulit, nah ketika mulai masuk perkalian 6 atau lebih, akan sedikit rumit, maka memakai metode kali ini akan membuat lebih mudah, efisien, dan cepat

  • kita tentukan dahulu mulai dari jari kelingking menjadi nomor 6 sampai ke ibu jari adalah nomor 10


Perkalian 6 - 9 menggunakan jari-jari tangan lengkap


  • contoh perkalian 7x8 (perhatikan gambar di bawah ini) sentuh jari-jarinya


Perkalian 6 - 9 menggunakan jari-jari tangan lengkap


  • hitung jarinya, (jari yang bagian bawah) setiap jari yang menyentuh hitung sebagai puluhan (jumlah jarinya 5=5 puluhan atau 50)



Perkalian 6 - 9 menggunakan jari-jari tangan lengkap




  •  selanjutnya, kalikan jari-jari sisanya untuk menemukan satuan  (contoh diatas, 3 jari dikali 2 jari = 6) tambahkan satuan ke puluhan , dan sekarang hasilnya adalah 56


Perkalian 6 - 9 menggunakan jari-jari tangan lengkap



Itulah sedikit Tips dan trik perkalian memakai jari-jari tangan, semoga bermanfaat, dan selamat belajar......
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22 Ways Doing Good / Dutiful with Parents



22 Ways Doing Good / Dutiful with Parents 1. Always speak politely to both parents, do not scold, scold or beat them. Because even if only to say "AH" is not allowed.

2. Always obedient to their parents (grandma/pa), ,.

3. Always be gentle, do not disappoint them.

4. Always keep a good name, honor and property of both parents, and do not take anything without their permission.

5. Always do things to ease their task, even without orders.

6. Always consult with them on every issue and apologize properly if there is a difference of opinion.

7. Always coming up soon, if they call.

8. Always respect the family and their friends.

9. Always polite in explaining each problem. Do membatah their vulgarity.

10. Always help a mother in the homework

11. Always pray for them both

12. Do not refuse with their orders or reply voice above the noise of them.

13. Do not go to a place / their room, before getting permission.

14. Do not precede them while eating, and honor them in eating food and drink.

15. Do not criticize them if they do something that is not good.

16. Always smile when talk with them.

17. If it has been able / capable of seeking sustenance, help them.

18. Try to get up from the seat / bed, if they come.

19. If you request something from a parent, ask gently, say thanks if they give something.

20. Do not get out of the home / away before they allowed, even on urgent plan. If forced to go, then ask for their allowed.

21.
Visit them as often as possible, give a gift, to say thank you for their hard work and education as well take a lesson from your children how difficult it is to educate them. Just like how hard our parents teach us hard.

22. People who are entitled to respect is the mother, then the father.