Learn from Mistakes

No one likes to share mistakes. But if you want to live life well, then there is no guarantee for you to not make mistakes. If you can learn from mistakes properly, then you will get new fuel to move forward.

You must realize it is an important part of self-development. Do not keep contemplating with guilt and regret, of course you can learn from these mistakes.

1. Apologize sincerely and sincerely

If you have made a mistake that hurt / harm others, it is very important for you to immediately apologize in earnest. Make sure it is an accident that will not happen again. A good apology of the person's trust in you.

In fact, if you do not apologize, then most likely the person will attack you.

It would be most effective if you personally apologize by mail or email. However, so you have apologized, do not make the same mistake again, because it is a silliness and very annoying. Immediately improve your actions.

2. Do not Be a 'Perfectionist'

If you live life with certainty to make mistakes, then you will spend your life by doing nothing. It does not matter if you make a mistake, because once again it is a vital part of life to keep you going. The more responsibility you bear, the more likely you make mistakes more often.

If you always want to feel everything is perfect, always want to avoid the slightest mistakes, it will gradually fortify yourself psychologically and you will not dare to take risks.

3. Do not Throw Time by Seeking Justification

We humans have the natural nature to seek justification for our mistakes. When we make mistakes, our average first is the fault of others.

"Yes, I've hit the car in front of me, but it's because my friend who always invites me gossip so my concentration is split ..."

"I can not finish the task on schedule because my computer is having trouble ..."

You need to know, when the mistakes you make, your boss is not at all interested in the justifications you make. We seek justification because of our high ego. Sometimes the best thing to say is very simple: "Yes, I made a mistake."

4. Understand Why Such Mistakes Can Happen

Errors can occur due to various errors. To reduce the same error twice, you must understand the root of the problem.

For example, you are caught in a quick and angry tone; often you put out bad words. You have to find out what caused you anger at that time. Maybe you feel very tired or your head is sick. If you make a mistake because you are so tired, try not to sleep until late at night. If you feel stressed, get together a way to make and relax.

5. Avoid Repeating the Same Error

You must avoid persistent guilt for mistakes, but at the same time, you have to find new ways and take corrective action. If you repeat the same mistake, it shows you are not experiencing a progress and the cause of repeated loss / suffering.

Often errors are caused by bad habits. To eliminate the same error over and over, you have to remove the bad habits. This is not easy and requires extra effort to change habits. Create, quickly you can quickly change the bad habits, quickly you quickly easy to make the same mistakes.

6. Mistakes Are an Opportunity To Learn

From the mistakes you have made, of course you will grow and wise. Mistakes, in judgment with the courage to take risks, are crucial to your success. The important thing is to see the error as a stepping stone to achieve something higher and a better life.